Mama Gone Crazy Liao!
Yesterday night, I'm really crazy liao...angry control my temper liao...
*SQ climb up the chair again..grab papa's wallet..*
msau asked her to come down with gentle voice...1 time...2 times..3 times...
*SQ took out all the note from wallets...then all the name card..credit card...*
msau raise voice volume and request her stop doing tat..and come down from chair...
*SQ act like not listen my voice..continued took out all the coins then throw all the thing over the floor...*
msau very angry liao...stand beside of SQ and scold her come down loudly...and simply grasped at something nearby and trying to frighten SQ stop being notty again...
(lucky I took a plaster ruler eja, kenot imagine if I took something really hard wan..)
*SQ still ignore me....took papa's handphone...*
msau screamed until voice broken to ask SQ come down & raise the ruler..pretend wanna rotan her...
*SQ playing the handphone.. ignore me*
msau's fire up liao... rotan SQ's hand kao kao..
*SQ no cry no stop!!*
msau kek si...lagi angry and rotan SQ's hand again..until ruler os broken liao...
*SQ cried & look at mama....but refuse to come down..*
msau very angry...look at SQ and wait for her to come down...(of coz heard she cried .. felt sayang liao mah..)
*SQ still crying and refuse to come down...*
msau scream "come down" *SQ kept stand there and refuse to come down*
msau scream "come down" *SQ kept stand there and refuse to come down*
msau scream "come down" *SQ kept stand there and refuse to come down*
msau scream "come down" *SQ kept stand there and refuse to come down*
Wat I'm trying to record in this post ahh?? I oso donno....
I only remembered, when SQ cried very loud but insist not to come down from chair...my heart broken liao...But I was just look at her...and kept ask myself in mind, wat I'm going to do next?? rotan her again?? or carry her down?? but no answer...
I stop there.....and both of us r in tat situation for fews mins....something like 'enemy no move I no move oso' (敵不動我不動).
Altho my mind telling me tat shouldn't rotan SQ so strongly...She still very young...But I just donno how to lecture her to be good liao?? Talk good good with her..not listen...Rotan her...not listen oso...aiii...i'm going crazy liao.........
When SQ being so notty..take her short chair to bathroom, climb up and trying to play the water in the big water tong...wat r u going to do?? Aiyah...I damn worry she put herself in dangerous ler....I kenot keep my eyes on her 24 hours aday ler...
haii...I told Fatty very early... I donno how to teach kids to be good...I always a 'let it be' person....But now...I felt lost....how to let it be? or how to teach??
*SQ climb up the chair again..grab papa's wallet..*
msau asked her to come down with gentle voice...1 time...2 times..3 times...
*SQ took out all the note from wallets...then all the name card..credit card...*
msau raise voice volume and request her stop doing tat..and come down from chair...
*SQ act like not listen my voice..continued took out all the coins then throw all the thing over the floor...*
msau very angry liao...stand beside of SQ and scold her come down loudly...and simply grasped at something nearby and trying to frighten SQ stop being notty again...
(lucky I took a plaster ruler eja, kenot imagine if I took something really hard wan..)
*SQ still ignore me....took papa's handphone...*
msau screamed until voice broken to ask SQ come down & raise the ruler..pretend wanna rotan her...
*SQ playing the handphone.. ignore me*
msau's fire up liao... rotan SQ's hand kao kao..
*SQ no cry no stop!!*
msau kek si...lagi angry and rotan SQ's hand again..until ruler os broken liao...
*SQ cried & look at mama....but refuse to come down..*
msau very angry...look at SQ and wait for her to come down...(of coz heard she cried .. felt sayang liao mah..)
*SQ still crying and refuse to come down...*
msau scream "come down" *SQ kept stand there and refuse to come down*
msau scream "come down" *SQ kept stand there and refuse to come down*
msau scream "come down" *SQ kept stand there and refuse to come down*
msau scream "come down" *SQ kept stand there and refuse to come down*
Wat I'm trying to record in this post ahh?? I oso donno....
I only remembered, when SQ cried very loud but insist not to come down from chair...my heart broken liao...But I was just look at her...and kept ask myself in mind, wat I'm going to do next?? rotan her again?? or carry her down?? but no answer...
I stop there.....and both of us r in tat situation for fews mins....something like 'enemy no move I no move oso' (敵不動我不動).
Altho my mind telling me tat shouldn't rotan SQ so strongly...She still very young...But I just donno how to lecture her to be good liao?? Talk good good with her..not listen...Rotan her...not listen oso...aiii...i'm going crazy liao.........
When SQ being so notty..take her short chair to bathroom, climb up and trying to play the water in the big water tong...wat r u going to do?? Aiyah...I damn worry she put herself in dangerous ler....I kenot keep my eyes on her 24 hours aday ler...
haii...I told Fatty very early... I donno how to teach kids to be good...I always a 'let it be' person....But now...I felt lost....how to let it be? or how to teach??
16 comments:
yo...pity SQ.....sayang sayang.
sakit hati lar, beat till the ruler also broken.
everyone loose it sometimes one lah... no worries... some more you are loaded with hormones now mah with SQ2... right?
whenever we felt the urge to loose our temper... just leave the room for a moment (timeout) and come back later :)
p/s: is 'enemy no move..' right?
Aiyoo..poor SQ..beaten by mommy ah! *sayang sayang*
I think this is normal toddler behaviour loh as they are so facinated with the things that they are not supposed to touch. My Yee Ching also acted the same, took her daddy's wallet and took out all the money, credit cards and pass to mommy (clever girl, kakaka!) And daddy's phone, remote control, alarm clocks all spoilt by her liao.
The Discipline book say: we as a parent have to stand at their point of view and can't expect them to think like the adult. So just let them play loh but play safely lah or divert thier attention with other toys/things.
Sorry leh for my long winded comment coz I like SQ so much!
yalor, agree with egghead, you're hormonal now la... i think here'll come a time that i will lose temper with the notti boy also
i also kenot stand children who dun reply when asked a question, like my littlest step-sis, sometimes reallt feeling like beating her, but beat also no use, she's like that wan >.<
sansan, haii..ruler broken, my heart oso broken liao lor...really felt sorry to SQ ler..:(
egghead, hormones? yemeh?? donno ler..hehe..I really hope I'm calm enough to leave SQ awhile lor..maybe I should put this in my mind to avoid it happen again...
Jefferene, discipline got say how to control temper or not ahh? hehe..I will try to understand SQ more lor..1st of all I must learn some way to calm down lor..me easy going mindless when angry...haii
sue, actually I know beat SQ oso no use wan..but donno y, sudenly kenot control myself lor..beat kaokao liao baru sakit hati...:P
wah ruler also broke!! very hard wohh..maybe she's too into digging the things and forgot mommy call.....be cool
No food for notty gals... Use food to lure her?
Firmly carry her down from chair, and tell her NO!
I sometimes also loose control beat beat Zara, but have to control. :-(
Not easy hor be mummy, but you take it easy la.
You know? I am very famous among my neighbours, because they always hear I scream to the girls.
Easy to tell you take it easy huh? I also cannot take it easy everytime it happen. but I guess this is what our parent do lor.
But I surrender most of the time lar, rotan already hug them and apologise also happen before.
but I think next time you just take away what she not suppose to grab, and tell them "someone else." and leave, if she cry, pretend didn't hear it, instead let her keep doing it, and you keep screaming.
that's what I do now.
the tricks i always used is to divert their attention, ie. tell her now TV got nice show ask her to go out watch TV or says daddy come back liao go out and greet him something lidat
小孩容易骗嘛:P
jazzmint, yeap..it really hard I beat her lor..haii..too angry liao until forgot to control myself..:P..
jason, wah..威脅her ahh..hehe..takut she will do it more for food ler..like tat mai cham?
zara's mama, 8 out of 10 times I stillable to told myself like tat lor..but sometimes very depress lah..SQ kept doing the same thing..haii..
TM, yalor..the next day after this ahh..I din scold SQ for playing papa's wallet liao..I scold fatty lah! who ask him didn't put those thing at the place SQ kenot reach ler..:P
milly, pain ahh...hehe..of coz pain lah..if not she won cried like tat lor..but nvm lah..after sayang sayang is ok liao..
shiaulin, hahaa..really so easy to cheat wan meh?? I never try b4 lah..hmm...will try this later..haha
我想她是吃软不吃硬啦... 蛮坚持哦...
anyway, like what has been suggested, take the things away tell her why cannot take then quickly use other things to divert her attention. no point stress yourself out like that mah...
so, what happened after that scene 'enemy no move i no move'?
I can fully understand how you feel, coz almost all the time I face this.
When beat Ian's hand with my hand, my hand got so painful that I had to stop, and he seem 'no-feeling'.
So, guess what mamazara and TM are right. I do that and it helped. Distraction also good.
Basically, be firm, take away the stuff, say 'That is not your toy, come play with...' or '... come mama show you this', etc...
Ian sometimes okay, but sometimes he would 'fat lan za' and twist his body, lay down on the floor, kick and cry. I just ignore him, still keep away the stuff. If no other people at home, usually it works.
Every children is different, just try to explore the best method that suits SQ? :)
I try not to beat Justin even if he's driving me nuts sometimes. I'll only carry him away if he's doing something dangerous, and explain to him again and again. Dunno if he understands, but I just try my best. If he refused to listen, I'll let him "get hurt", but only minor one. Then, he'll remember and doesn't do it again. Dunno if what I'm doing is correct or not.
DG, I'm worry she is 软硬不吃啦..hehe..coz tried both b4 mah..but she seem like no feeling wan..
suzette, wah happen ahh...mama galah liao lah...carry her down lor..have to sayang sayang somemore lor..
shoppingmum, I just no patient to explain to kids lor..haii..I know I should be more patient on this lah..gotta train myself 1st..
This happend everyday at my home..not only my son but the gals also. Last time i used cane to cane my son later saw it very sakit hati then now used hand, can control the hardness. The gals i just used hand bit only but that day i also cant tahan then used hanger to bit their hand, later they cried so loud make my hard broken then i sayang them back after they stop cried and explain to them again y i bit them.
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