No More Tough SQ Lor
Since Kiki born..I lost my tough SQ liao... :(
Now I have a 'ku bao' (crying) SQ...
On my confinement, she was act like usual on the 2 weeks...but on the following week...wahsey...I kenot tahan ler...
When she done something wrong and be I say a word, she cry loud b4 I say a word..
When she request for something and I slow abit to take for her, she cry & cry again...
When she saw Kiki nennen, she oso wan & straightly pull my cloth up, if i reject then she cry loud again..
When she wan me to carry, but i kenot then cry loud again & again...
Everyday was cry & cry & cry eja....haii...Altho I knew she wan my attention, but just too tire to fulfill all her need lah...
I still donno how to handle or take care SQ & kiki at the same time...I always bring them to my mother's house ..Coz I really scare to heard Kiki cry for nennen then SQ oso will cry...but donno for wat...haii..
So far..I never stay alone with 2 of them yet..I need more time to learn how to solve there need at the same time ler...haii..
13 comments:
be patient... this is a new challenge of mother of two. My JS also like that lor.. until now still cry cry cry.. we call her "harm bao".
When there is a new addition to the family, there is a lot of adjustment the little one need to get use to, they are not too sure how to express their anxiety, and certainly there is a lot of insecurity in the little one.
you are not alone leh...
same story la, SS oso act like easy to cry :<
Laki not CRY LOUD hehe.
laki me most of time at home, will seperate SS from the Mumy where she bisi with SS2.
be patient lo.
I guess she miss the attention that she used to get before Kiki arrived. I'm also keeping my fingers crossed and wondering how I'm gonna handle 2 kids later on. Wish me luck
Poor Msau..! Poor SQ.. ! the phase will past.. and everything will be good .. :)
don't worry, you'll manage...
dun worry, me past thru that phase too! lucky my other family member help me to entertain Wien, else me sure cry together with them one! like what Jason commented! LOL
jason, haha..like tat will be 4 ku bao at home lor..
elaine lee, yalor..I think i should pay more patient about this..haii...need more time to get use for it lor..:P
lockee, u good lah..SS love to stick with daddy...u seem like no need to work ahh??? so free to look after SS ahh??
jazzmint, yeap..i understand tat..haii..wish ur Fathye & baby will be much more easier to handle ahh..
mamabok, thanx! just wish to pass all this phase as soon as possible lah..
DG, hehe..will be guaa...but definately not now lor..
jesslyn, hehe..tats y I bring them to my mother house lor..at least I could have some sleep at there lor..:p
SQ ia not abnormal as she is wanting ur attention when new bb around. Dont worry just get her involve more in the taking care of the bb to let her feel important cher cher.
In few months time when bb is able to react more with her, she will soon find out the joys of having a playmate.My boys r so lost without each other. Hang in there ya!
She's trying to get your attention la.. scared you don't love her any more.. so little bit little bit.. mah cry loh.
cos last time what she want u will give her..now summore got kiki rampas with her wor...!!
i think when she grow up, she will more understand gua...
patient lor.. tahan...tahan...
In time we'll all adjust la, even now after Izac's 4.5 months Ivan sometimes still very "teh" want mummy to caryy when Izac start crying for milk...
Just need to have one to one time with either one of them lor... so when Izc is sleeping I give all my attention to Iavn and play with him... But I guess my case lucky also la, SIL#1 and SIL#2 both mostly around my place all the time, help me play with Ivan when I'm bz with Izac :)
a&a'smom, yeap..I should let her try to involve more in taking care kiki..hmm..hope she will love it lor.
zara's mama, i know..just donno how to handle mah...:p
potential mom, hehe..u can ask ur korkor understand or not ahh..u oso rampas his papamama love lah...haha
sue, u r right..I'm adjusting myself too..I wish to have one to one time like u ler..but kiki don wan her papa ler..otherwise I sure have more time with SQ wan..
Mimi always told me to sayang my Didi, She always told me not to hurt Didi, be gentle when play with Didi. Mimi did not beat me if I incidently do 'rude' to Didi, she just told me not to do so, and told me that Didi will get hurt same like if people do so to me.
Mimi also will praised me when I being good boy. I love Didi cos Mimi feel happy when I being good boy.
Rachel Said: I will put more attention to Adrian than Alvan, as he will know more than Alvan didi. Time pass pretty well, and both of them are loving each others, play togethers, althought sometimes Adrian will incidently hurting Alvan, but I will ask him to sayang didi back and he did, and continue playing.
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