Quilty Mama
Every nite about SQ & Kiki Sleeping time, I'm the one most busy liao...I have to put Kiki sleep 1st, then back to master bedroom nursing SQ to sleep...
Bad habit hor? ..I'm the one build this habit.
..Actually I love this moment ....coz recently this is the only time I could hold her silently..smell her hair & play with her liao...
Bad habit hor? ..I'm the one build this habit.
..Actually I love this moment ....coz recently this is the only time I could hold her silently..smell her hair & play with her liao...
Below scene happen everyday in my house..
Fatty trying his best to occupied SQ at Master bedroom..
Msau nursing Kiki while put her to sleep at 2nd room..locked the door to avoid SQ kacau Kiki to sleep...
Fatty : "Loi! SQ..papa kong gu zai ahh..." (come SQ, papa tell u story ahh..)
SQ : "mmh moi..." (Don wan)
Fatty :"Loi lah..kong rabbit mama tong mai rabbit baby ku zai wor..." (come lah..story about rabbit mama and rabbit baby wor)
SQ : "mmh moi..."
SQ : "Ooooiii?? mama ler? mama ler? "
* SQ knock 2nd room punya door...* *knock knock knock*
SQ : "mama..mama.." * knock harder* *bang bang bang*
fatty : "Mei mei oi oi woh..mmh moi cao..loi papa ya woi" (mei mei sleeping woh..don noisy ..come to papa..)
SQ with crying : " mmh moi..mmh moi..mama..mama.." *knock again....*
Y I didn't put SQ to sleep 1st ler?? haii...Kiki don't wan her papa lor..always cry cry cry..give pacifier oso donwan...so mai have to put Kiki sleep 1st lor...
Frankly speaking, I have a quilty to SQ ler..my heart quite pain when hear she crying for mama but I kenot go to her...
Frankly speaking, I have a quilty to SQ ler..my heart quite pain when hear she crying for mama but I kenot go to her...
1 of my friend told me her elder dotter dislike her b'coz she have less time/patient/energy to play/accompany her , after younger dotter arrived..
I'm worry SQ will treat me like tat too..haii...I gotta do something to compensates SQ liao...hmm.
I'm worry SQ will treat me like tat too..haii...I gotta do something to compensates SQ liao...hmm.
10 comments:
hard to balance your love between your girls huh? I am sure you will find a way as SQ grows up :)
Can you try to give them the same bedtime? I find it easier to let them have the same bedtime. So that means nursing baby while telling the elder one stories or reading, singing and chatting with her. Once you get the hang of it, its easier that way because afterall, breastfeeding gives us extra free hands to do other things unlike bottle feeding.
Yeah loh.. you can nurse Kiki to sleep and at the same time talk to SQ ma.. cannot meh?
I'm also worried when my turn come.. how to balance and give them equal time huh?
I had gone thru that phase, same as your case too! Hang in there, u can place 2 in same room and they will get use to each other as time goes!
Not easy to handle two at the same time huh, I don't know wat would happen when my turn come! Don't feel so guilty lah, u r trying to do your best oledi!
i also have 2 of them in the same room, coz all of use sleep in one room lol! you'll find your 节奏 soon but have to start somewhere loh...
aiyoo...i'm beginning to feel the pressure liao :(
I like the moment when Alvan fall asleep at my shoulder, look so sweet...
I get both my boy sleep at the same time, give them milks, both of them will toss down after finish their milk.
Hey..Msau,
SQ will understand it better as she gets older.. :)
I too worried.. when i was thinking of having another one.
Aigh... me also la, scared Ivan will get angry at me when sometimes Izac cry and I have to nurse him to sleep first...
But so far he has been a good brother and understanding coz I keep telling him I'll play with him after sailo sleep... *cross fingers*
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